It’s been a tough week, mostly surrounding work. There are things coming up that I thought I was okay with, but now that more is being dumped on to me, turns out I’m not as okay as I thought. Add that to my already highly-technical main project and: :::a n x i e t y … Continue reading is the week over yet?
I figure that since my therapist has been harping on me for years to do this, I’ll list some things I like about myself yesterday and today*: I found out I’m farther along in and knew more than I thought for a work project. I killed my workout yesterday, and it was a step up… Continue reading Good things!
So I made a decision a while back to take myself off of all dating sites because it was becoming detrimental to my mental health. If, like probably all of us, you have issues with self-esteem and self-worth, it’s probably a guarantee that a few weeks on a dating site will make that worse. Unless,… Continue reading Not dating, but I’m not nothing.
Some of these are things you hear in everyday life and on social media. Others come from online dating. I may add to this as more come to mind…. What they say What I hear I live with no regrets. I do whatever I want and take no responsibility for my actions. Nor do… Continue reading What people say and what I hear
Hi. It’s been a while. I’m still alive. I took a break from this because life kept going downhill for a while: I lost my other cat. My job is unfulfilling and stupid. My brain is a dick. Etc. I’m still going, albeit grudgingly. I have two new kittens. I still live in the same… Continue reading No Kool-Aid for me
I’ve had my cat(s) 9 years this month. It’s making me pretty sad today, thinking about it. I’ve been worrying that since Java passed away, his brother (literally, they were litter mates) Tag has been depressed. But after a little research, I realized that he doesn’t show the classic symptoms. I think it’s more coming… Continue reading 9 Years
I gave one of my cats back to the universe last week. His name was Java, and he was a large, loud, solid-black cat. It had been just the three of us–Java, his brother Tag, and myself–for so long that I’ve been a bit stunned as to how odd the dynamic has felt in my house.… Continue reading And then there were two…